Tuesday, September 23, 2003

did the ss today. was planning to meet ying at kfc. but something totally affect my mood so i pan sei ying and went home. =| sorry yingz.
went for a run. totally shiok. ran non stop and watched some pple play bball. awesome. got this fat man super accurate. but dun like. cause he's so 1 man show. bleahz! =P ahaha.
oh well!

love is patient, love is kind.
love does not envy, love does not boast,
love is not proud. love is not rude,
love is not self-seeking, love is not easily angered,
love keeps no record of wrongs.
love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
love always protects, always trust,
always hopes, always perserveres.
LOVE NEVER FAILS!

Sunday, September 21, 2003

Flirting Tips

Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.

#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.

#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'

#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)

#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice....All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval..you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'

#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world. If all else fails give men who need a tune up on flirting this phone # and I'll take care of them for you. 216-521-5683 (521-Love)

#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.

#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.

#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.

#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.

#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone

from http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/flirtideas.shtml
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got this from some dumb website! ahha! girls out there... learn it well. anyway, not promoting gals to flirt. it's just a reference.

ahahaha! anyway, actually feeling sorta depressed. immuning myself with panadols again. the headaches symptoms will come automatically when exams coming. HOW? anyway gotta start intensive studying already. INTENSIVE. really intensive. i can't afford to be retained.

anyway, supposed to go for the chicky thing. realised it was cancelled. me and colleague were stranded. sighz. totally waste time. anyway, went back to work as usual. celebrated mdm's bdae. totally pissed off with the stupid KANESH. scold me for no reason. WADDA loR! i think only i am working. the rest are just eating and eating. hate him. hope he will leave as soon as possible!! blEahz!!! =X

-if we hold on together, our dreams will nv die-

hie! blogging early in the morning!!! need to go work later. guess WHAT? my manager wants me to be an ambassador for the chicky club thing. OMG!! she thinks i am a kid!!
gotta study real hard. went to my workplace to study for a while before working. sighx. i really miss band! it's like part of my life. playing the instrument at home brings no mood at all! i love the team the spirit!!
something bad happened. not gonna name it out here cause here is no longer safe. sometimes i really hate myself blogging. why am i telling everyone my life. ARGHZ! but i like the way pple go through the HTML scripts. so COOL!!
oh yeah!! yesterday after work. realise 10 chickens were missing. cost around 30 bucks. the manager refused to let us go home cause she knows it's among us--> the culprit. so we searched the WHOLE kfc! i even rammaged through the dustbins. BELIEVE IT? ying vomitted cause the smell was overwhelming. anyway, after a long search. merilyn found it among the bushes behind a tree just outside kfc. i was like 'WADDA' chicken also want to steal!! but after a few thought, maybe the person is desperate. sigh. i dun wanna jump to any conclusion who stole it. anyway missed my last bus. so took yuko's last bus to her house and ran home. around a 10 min walk+run. sigh! can't believe it abt stealing.
hope the culprit will stop.

MISSING CASES IN KFC
1. yuying's $50
2. yuko's $40
3. mdm's earnings $50
4. my wallet.
5. chickens
that's all i know. sighx. no place is longer a safe place!!

Friday, September 12, 2003

back from chalet @ sentosa. totally awesome!! it was like a bond binding chalet. yuying got a stead!! so happy for her! looking at her blushed face whenever she talked abt him, i knew that she is deeply in love. SO jealous! ahahaha! then got to talk to yuko. realise we both trust each other a lot. just that we went through so much that we are skeptical of our friendship. really would like to continue the friendship! yeah built a stronger bond with shi qi and merilyn!!

thursday
so went to band at 11.30, did the usual stuff. the sec 1 joined us. the band was like super big!! ahaha then did happy march. super cute. after band was rushing like mad to meet yuying and yuko at harbourfront. the macdonalds there was so cool! i went into this UMEYA shop. there was this testing bowl, so i just test and test and test. so i ate and ate and ate. the auntie kept staring at me lor!! ahaha! ying and ko were so embarrassed!! ahaha! then we missed the bus to the resort so we waited for the other like 1 hr later. we sat there singing songs. ahaha!
reached resort. super cool! can see the MERLION!! the eyes like super scary! then we went to play the arcade, took the monorail. were shouting "happy lantern festival" to the pple below the monorail. oh, but merilyn said something that made qi cried. but i think being honest with her, made us more truthful to her! that's wad friends are for! so went into the closed restaurant and faked to be customers. made a din there. went to the merlion walk. got a lot of fountains one!! then played with the water. ahaha! suddenly the lights all off. so were playing those scaring game. junko cried. ahaha! but managed to coax her! went back to room. watched tv, bathed. talked. eat. then around 2+, everyone decided to go to the 7-11. saw a couple smooching lor! ahaahah!!!! walked on the beach. saw pple playing frisbee. then back to the resort again. around 3+ - 4 liao! waited for mer to bathe. mer and qi left. jun slept. so we 3 gals talked all the way till 5. slept. woke up @ 7 cause i was so DAMN freaking cold!! went to the bal to sleep. realise yuko was there too! i hid beneath the towels and sleep. slept till my whole legs are numb. so i sat through the sleep. best lorh!

friday
woke up then was ramaging for food. ate super ring for breakfast and sweets and drank ribena. watched wqyl. mer and qi were still slpping. all in my room were already awake. but only partially. i ate and ate and ate. ahaha! 12pm --> time to check out. went to harbourfront for lunch. didn't feel like eating. they ate chicken chop, etc... bleahx. went to meet deb for movie. she seemed so depressed. sighx! the movie <> was alright. not as nice. saw so many pple. went home and sleep after the show. need to recuperate the sleep lost.

to deb: don't feel so sad lah! just take everything lightly. if it meant to be urs, it will come back to u! who say u got no friends. u got me wad! friends forevea!!

-scarred-