"As we open our hearts to love, as we attend to what is beautiful and necessary in our lives and the lives of those we love. We then begin to feel more intimately the tender sorrows that fill any human life. We become less defended, more awake to the inevitable sorrows of being alive. We begin to feel how love and hurt often arise together. People who love us are the same people who hurt us. When our heart opens in love, whatever is embedded in the heart will also spill out. The love that opens our heart will also open whatever sadness we have carried for a lifetime."

"I gave her strength to care for her husband,despite faults
and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife,
but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.

For all of this hard work, I also gave her a tear to shed.
It is hers to use whenever needed and it is her only weakness.
When you see her cry, tell her how much you love her,
and all she does for everyone, and even though she may still cry,
you will have made her heart feel good.

She is special"
(from why women cry?)

happy marriage kong wee and dorcas ((:
i think they are really sweet. i also want to find a guy like him. stable and godly.
:D

i think i am running a mild fever from over-exhausation.
i am tired. i am so dead within.
i feel completely wrenched up and wrinkled.
)):

i have had enough. but i'm stubborn and adament.
i bloody won't. i am patient.
cos' you're the best thing ever.

what's forever?
this is just plain delusion.
yet till death do us part.

haha. i am contradicting myself.
i took some pics but i am too lazy to upload.

and i shan't refrain from some personal attack or even the entire family attack.


it's killing me inside. out.